Mindful Mommy Monday: Mommy! Mommy! MOM!!

Happy Monday Moms!! <3 Did you miss me?  Weeellll, last week Daddy Hoot and I finally got married!! <3 It's still hard for me to believe that I had a wedding.  A planned, coordinated, guests came, things happened ... wedding.  Held hands.  Cried.  Rings.  Wedding.  It was great!  The beginning to a long lasting healthy relationship comes from a simple decision.  A decision to work hard, love harder, and forgive often.

One of the most powerful days of my life 1/25/13

Now, without making anyone all teary eye'd here we go!!  This weeks blog; Mommy! Mommy! MOM!! was of course inspired by my own to-do's here at the Hoot Residence. Lol. Guess what mommies, go grab DADDY (other other mommy)!!  We're gonna figure out a few ways to inspire Dad to be more proactive and involved.

One of the things that I'm often frazzled by is the urge to feel like I have to do EVERYTHING.  Wake up first, prepare breakfast & lunch, get the kids up, brushed washed changed, dressed, off to school, and then finally whatever I have to do.  All while handling every mini crisis that pops up - "Where are my shoes?!" "Where's my tie!" "I can only find one sock!" "I left my book bag at school!" "Can you iron this" "Can I watch a movie!" "Can I .." "Where's my .." "I need .." "But .."  Now, as we go into this - I LOVE my family. Nothing gives me more joy than knowing they need me and love me.  One of the ways I express this love is through the things I do for them.  Like pack lunch the night before, stay up til 3 AM to make sure work clothes are clean & ironed, cook 2 different dinners, pick up brownie mix @ midnight, clean messes, etc.  But, it can all be very overwhelming.  Those times do come when I feel like I just want to lay in the floor & scream.  Sometimes my head is so filled with task & chores on top of everyday life - I can't get a moment of peace.

Now: If you're reading this with Daddy (or other parent), and you can relate, now would be a good time to talk about how you've been feeling.  Just be open about how you feel and how they can help.

I've started to kind of "Zen" out when doing my house work.  Bringing a peaceful mind to the chore and letting it relax me.  It truly works wonders.  It's a task that can busy my hands but not my mind.  So I smile while cleaning the kitchen &  hum while I vacuum! Lol. It's easier than you think.  I try to remain mindful in busy moments, that way I'm aware of what my family needs at the moment.  When I prepare for what they need I usually get more done later on! Lol. 

Daddy (and kids), I'm gonna give a run down of a few things you could do to help mom.  1) Pick up after yourself!  Even if it's just putting your shoes away.  Mom will notice and smile because of it.  2) Pay attention to the chores that mom does every day.  Surprise her and handle one or two for her every once in awhile.  3)  If you see it needs attention, attend to it.  This means, if the trash is full; pull it and take it out when you notice.  If the laundry is over flowing, throw in a load.  4) Don't whine!  When mommy finally does ask for help - don't complain moan and groan.  How would you feel if mom complained & whined at your every request.  5) And finally, be mindful!  Truly see what mom is doing when she's all over the place.  Look for ways to help.  Be forgiving and understanding.  It's hard being a mommy!  Being PRO-active instead of re-active around the house will make for happier mommy, which means a happier family, and life.  

Resources:
Dad's Adventure
How to Help Your Busy Mom Around the House 

Happy WEEK 7 mommies!!! <3 How did everyone do last week?  What are some of the things you want your little ones to take from you?  A few of my hopes for my children; that they are smart.  I am fully aware that our kids will do crazy things but I want them to think about their choices and decisions.  I want them to be kind-hearted and empathetic.  I want them to be loving and genuine.  I also want them to know the meaning of happiness.  And  inquisitive.  I want them to be able to look at me and know how a woman in love with treat them.  I hope they know what a healthy relationship looks like and strive for it.

Mommy Challenge Week 7: Me Time!
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I keep saying that these challenges all amazingly in line with my blog posts! <3 And I PROMISE I'm not doing it on purpose. Lol. So what do you do with your ME TIME?  Wait, let's back up .. do you get me time?! .. Lol. Hopefully you will after Daddy reads this post.  Sit back quietly and read a book (for leisure), take a bath, do some yoga, have a glass of wine and just kick back.  Let Dad (or other mother) cook dinner, clean, and put the kids to bed.  You deserve it!  This weeks challenge - GET ME TIME!  15-30 mins, at least, 3 times a week for mommy to defrag!

Post shots of you deep into your me ME TIME on the Humbly Peax & Love FB Page. <3

As always - We can do it!!

Love you mommies (and daddies)!  
See you on YouTube!

- Mama Hoot

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About Mindful Mommy Monday Blogger

Dominique is an owner of In Focus Business Solutions, LLC and Jane Doe, LLC, a mother of two, wife, and student.  She is also a sculptor  mixed media artist, and experienced Customer Service Trainer.  She pushes awareness and mindfulness to the forefront of her work.  Her community work is done with mommies and assisting people re-entering the work force.  

To contact Dominique email her at: dominiquepap@gmail.com